People would probably describe me as an extrovert as I am friendly and outgoing.
My 4-year old son Dylan is kinda like me. He is also friendly, outgoing and loves playing in big groups. We jokingly call him “Mayor” as he says hi to everyone, just like a politician.
Tom and Aryanna in Batanes, a place of solitude and adventure for both introverts. This is a page from their book: ‘Ichigo & Mr. Roboto’s Batanes Adventure’. Soon to be published!
However, Tom and Aryanna are the opposites of us. They are both mellow, quiet and very modest. It’s safe to say that they are introverts.
There was a time when I would encourage them to be more outgoing, expressive and be more, well, like me. I used to think that their being quiet was a disadvantage and I was afraid that people would judge them for being a snob or unapproachable (I assure you that they are the nicest people you’ll meet). Silly me.
A page from Tom and Aryanna’s book: ‘Ichigo & Mr. Roboto’s Batanes Adventure’. Watch out for it!
Watching this video was life-changing. I see my husband and daughter’s personalities now as something very special and I wouldn’t want them to change because there is power in being introverts. In being themselves. And it’s OK that they are not “rowdie” (you’ll get I mean after watching the video).
The Power of Introverts
I believe that I have some introvert personality in me too. Maybe I’m an ambivert. There are times when I don’t feel like socializing and just stay home. I remember when I was working on my book, I didn’t go out for more than a year! Sometimes I find it hard to focus on a task so solitude helps in meeting my goals.
Last week, someone mentioned that I’ve been “invisible.” I think that person meant that I haven’t been going out and not being active on the blog. Another person told me: “You should start going out soon. Remember out of sight, out of mind.” I get it. I’m sure they said those things to me out of love and probably miss my company, but I have moments in my life when being alone is more important to me than being sociable. Working on projects with utmost intensity works for me.
In the end, while we want to embrace our inner introverts, we should also try to connect with other people and share our gifts. Achieving solitude amidst chaos is an art form. In my opinion, real power lies in balance.
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I just started reading Susan Cain’s book “Quiet” and I am slowly understanding myself as an introvert. I think it’s a good read for everyone =)
Love your blog Ms. Jenni. I can always feel your enthusiasm and “kalog-ness” in your posts.